Success Secret - What’s More Important, The Present Or The Future? - September 30, 2008 -
Successful people have found a success secret that allows them to reach unprecedented levels of success. Its time that you know just what this success secret is so that you can begin to apply it to your own life.
The first thing that you need to know is that most successful people dont have any more talents or abilities than you do. The reason why they are so successful is because they know and apply certain success secrets in their lives. So if you found out what these secrets are and begin to apply them to your own life you will be able to reach great levels of success in your own life.
One success secret that almost all successful people understand can be found in a quote by Jerry Seinfeld who said, I was in the drug store the other day trying to get a cold medication…Not easy. There’s an entire wall of products you need. You stand there going, Well, this one is quick acting but this is long lasting… Which is more important, the present or the future?
Heres the success secret: most unsuccessful people focus on the quick acting, quick fix, remedies that merely put a band-aid on it, where successful people are more concerned about the long-lasting well being of not only their own life, but the lives of their families as well. Successful people are willing to go through upfront discomfort and pain in able to have the long-term benefits of success. On the other hand, unsuccessful people dont want to suffer so they find the quick fix only to find out the problem was merely covered up and will keep coming up again and again until it is dealt with properly.
An example of this success secret in action can be found in the way many people handle their finances. Many financially successful people today were willing to live below their means in the early parts of their life so that they could build true wealth. As a result, they can now buy whatever they want, live however they want, and travel wherever they want.
Other people just throw this success secret out the window because they want to have everything right now. So they buy the most expensive car, house, clothes, and vacations that they can but never get ahead financially in life. They are more focused on the present than they are on the future.
What will you do with this success secret? Will you throw it out so that you can enjoy the brief relief of success now or will you apply it to your life so that you can live a life full of success and leisure in the future?
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Failure is the Fertilizer for Success - September 30, 2008 -
When should you throw in the towel on your professional dreams when time and time again your business ventures fail? When should you stop believing that the right guy is out there after years of searching? When do you give in to an addiction and decide it is stronger than you are after countless times in rehab? Never!
Life is full of experiences, many of them repeated failures. You truly see the strength of a man or woman when you realize the road they have come to get where they are. Failure happens to all of us, whether you are an ordinary or extraordinary person. The only difference between ordinary and extraordinary people is how they handle their failures.
For example, I think my husband is extraordinary. When he joined the track team in high school, he was called the obese penguin and could barely make it around the football feild. He now runs marathons for a hobby, and is an offer in the Marine Corps, having gone through the most intense basic training in the US Military. He was discouraged from attending college. Even his high school counselor said he wasnt college material. Last year, he was the first in his family to ever graduate from college and now is doing well law school. He paved the way for his younger siblings who are now all in college. He has been put own, laughed at, beat up, rejected and betrayed in many endeavors and situations. Yet, he still is one of the kindest, most tenacious, courageous people I have ever met.
How does he overcome such challenges? When someone says he cant or when he fails, he digs in and tries harder. After all, you only are a failure at something until you succeed at it. And the more times you fail before you succeed the more amazing and rewarding the accomplishment.
Failure is the fertilizer for success. When you fail, you can step back, analyze what went wrong, and what you can do to change for the next time. Each time you fail, you know more about what not to do to succeed, and you are that much closer to becoming extraordinary. Each failure creates more fertile ground for success to grow in.
Thomas Edison said, Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. Edison knew of what he spoke. He did not create the light bulb as we know it on the first, second or 100th try. It took over two years of failed attempts before he finally succeeded. Arent we all glad he kept trying?
Its your choice. Be extraordinary. Never give up!
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The Power of Possibility - September 27, 2008 -
We all have possibilities we dont know about. We can do things we dont even dream we can do.
Dale Carnegie 1888-1955
It really is true. We all are blessed with unlimited possibilities, not just the already most successful or even the most promising among us but all of us. We all have the power to be, do and have more than we ever dreamed of. The only absolute true limitations are the limitations in our own minds.
If you want success in any endeavor one of the best things you can do is to stop arguing for your limitations and start arguing for your success. Dont think about how it cant be done or how it wont happen or why it wont happen but rather think about how it can be done and how it will happen. If you dont believe it, just imagine it to be so. Dont take counsel with your fears but remind yourself and stay in close touch with your dreams and the unlimited possibilities of life.
One of the biggest dream stealers of all is when you wont even allow yourself to want what you really want because you cant see a way for it to happen. Think back on your life. How many times have things happened in your life that were unexpected, that turned out different than you originally thought or planned? Most of the time it happened in an even better way than you ever imagined. You couldnt have orchestrated it better had you planned every second of it with exact detail.
Your dreams are in your heart for a reason. Think about it. There are people doing things you never had any desire to do and there are people doing things you always wanted to do. Not everybody wants the same thing. There is a reason why your dreams are your dreams and someone elses dreams are their dreams. You are granted the power to make the dreams come true when you dare to dream the dream. You just have to find that power, believe in yourself and your dream and go for it.
Even if you dont believe it yet, as you start thinking, talking and focusing only upon your success life will reward you and you will start having some success. Every achievement will build upon the last achievement and soon you will know you are unstoppable and you have the power to make your dreams come true.
It is in you. It is in all of us. We just have to find it for ourselves. Start talking, thinking and focusing on the things that you want and you will attract all of that and more into your life.
Start looking for reasons, excuses, and justifications for believing in the power of possibility. Your life will be better for it. Youll find more Joy and your dreams will come true.
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Why You Should Never Wear Your Pajamas To Work - September 27, 2008 -
Have you ever been told, “You should never judge a book by its cover!? Here is something you may want to consider; people DO judge a book by its cover, and more importantly, they judge you by your cover.
My life is like one giant research project, as I am literally compelled to engage myself in the usage of cool things about human behavior that I discover. For about a year now, I have been having a ball noting the behavior of those I interact with when it comes to facial hair. I may or may not have a goatee at any given time, and this has proved very interesting indeed. Of course I already knew what the research showed, about trust and facial hair, but as Ken Robert’s says,” Find out for yourself”, and I tend to agree with that approach. How many political figures do you see with facial hair? There is a reason; people tend to (on an unconscious level) distrust those with facial hair.
I have found the difference in the way people respond to me when I am shaven, as opposed to having a goatee, nothing short of amazing. Clearly, people behave in a way that is favorable for most of the interactions you will have with them when you have no facial hair. But I now want to show you some research that should absolutely turn your beliefs about the importance of appearances upside down.
Dr. Andrew Harrell, from the University of Alberta has shown that attractive kids are physically abused and murdered less often by their Mothers than unattractive kids. Just as shocking was the fact that only 1.2% of the least attractive children were buckled in their car seats, while 13.3 % of the attractive children were strapped in for safety!
You can find the rest of this study online, but the point is clear; if physical attractiveness influences parents to treat their OWN children differently, then we cannot pretend that its power is anything less than astonishing.
The clothes we wear, the style of our hair, (or in my case the lack of it) our posture, our voice tone, gestures, etc, all help create the frame that “tells others who we are.” So, forget about debating whether it’s fair or not….that is not relevant. The fact is that people do in fact judge us by our appearance (and we judge others this way as well), and we all have a say in how others will perceive us, by the decisions we make about how to “frame” ourselves.
Take some time this week and notice how much what people wear influences the way you respond to them, it will amaze you. But if you really want to have fun, go out of town and go into a jewelry store in your best suit or “nice clothes.” Just walk in a take note of how you are treated. Now, go back a couple of weeks later in old jeans, an old ratty T-shirt, and without any makeup, or cologne, and once again, notice how you are treated. If it is anything like the experiments I have conducted, you will never again doubt the power of your appearance. I’d love to hear about any experiences you have had with this.
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Get Rid of Failure - September 27, 2008 -
Failure, failure! Everyday many people encounter and experience failure in their life. As long as man breathes, there are always failures that always accompany him whether he likes it or not. But the question is, how can we get rid of failure? What are the ways to make failure as stepping stone to succeed? And how can you make yourself not to be forever a failure and loser?
Ive learned from my past experienced that life without failure is dull and meaningless! It cannot help you to improve yourself and discover your great potential.
There is an old sayings, the diamond cannot be polish without friction nor man be perfected without trials.
In order to see the sun, we must also to see the rain.
In the accounts of the history of the lives of greatest men, I discovered that before they finally reach the heights of their achievement and success, they experience first a lot of failures before they can gradually get the crown of their hard work.
I can still recall the life story of the late great president of America, Abraham Lincoln.
In 1831, he failed in business. In 1832, he defeated in legislature. Again in 1833, he failed in business. In 1836, he suffered nervous breakdown. In 1838, he defeated running for speaker. In 1840, He defeated running for post elector. In 1843, he defeated running for congress. In 1846, he elected to congress. In 1848, he defeated running for congress. In 1855, he defeated running for senate. In 1856, he defeated running for vice-president. In 1858, he defeated running for senate. Gradually in 1860, he was elected as the 16th and one of the most greatest and outstanding president of the American history!
Its really true dear readers, you become as what you think!
If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you dont.
If youd like to win but think you cant, its almost certain you wont.
Lifes battles dont always to the stronger or faster man,
But sooner or later, the man who wins is the man who thinks he can.
Dear readers, if you can keep on trying after three failures in a given undertaking, you may consider yourself a candidate for a leadership role in your present occupation. If you can keep on trying after a dozen failures, the seed of genius is sprouting within you!
Yoritomo Tashi argued that when you fall and get up it does something to you. It is healthy and invigorating to fall many times through life, if you get up each time. It is the getting up that count.
Dr. John Maxwell would like to remind you that the only person who can stop you from becoming what God intends you to become is you!
Finally always remember dear readers that the Future Belongs to Those Who Believe in the Beauty of Their Dreams!
Wish you many blessings to come and God Bless!
About The Author
Moises Padin Reconalla finished his Bachelor’s degree in History and Minor in Political Science at Adventist University of the Philippines. He is also a License Social Studies teacher and worked as a College Guidance Counselor, College Instructor and Working Student Supervisor at North Davao Colleges, Panabo City, Philippines. Currently, he upgrades his Masters Degree in Guidance and Counseling at Cor Jesu College.
You can send your comments about this article through his email wisdomisgreat@gmail.com or wisdomisgreat@yahoo.com
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The Secret To Improving Your Life - September 27, 2008 -
Do you know what the secret to growth is? Do you know what the key to expanding your business or improving your life is? The secret may surprise you. Its discomfort. Thats right, get comfortable with being uncomfortable, thats the key to growth.
Tell me if this sounds familiar. Each day you wake up, you grab a coffee, shower, and head out the door to work. Do your time; maybe catch up with some co-workers over a quick lunch or coffee break. At the end of the day, you head home (often with more work tucked under your arm). You have dinner, do a few chores, and watch some TV then go to bed, only to repeat this same process tomorrow.
Most of us have a daily routine. We do the same things over and over. We take comfort in knowing whats going to happen next. Our days, and the results they produce, are predictable. However, in the comfort of this daily routine, we become stagnant and stop growing.
If you want to achieve growth in your life or business, you must be willing to step out of your comfort zone and do something new. Get up an hour earlier and read a book or trade journal. Find a leader in your field and offer to buy them lunch. Use this time to pick their brain and find out what made them successful. Sign up for that yoga class youve been dying to take but were to embarrassed to do alone. Ask the cute girl or guy and the coffee shop for their phone number, and then call them.
The point is, put yourself out there. Take risks, try something new. Step out of your comfort zone, and get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Only then will you begin to grow and achieve!
David Schneeweis is a personal success coach with over 10 years experience working with entrepreneurs, athletes, and others seeking to achieve greater success. His Direct To Success newsletter provides insight, tips, and strategies for use in reaching personal and financial success. To find out more information or to subscribe to the newsletter click here.
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Imagery & Affirmations - Activating Your Success Mechanism - September 24, 2008 -
YOUR AMYGDALA operates automatically like a default button on your computer. With repetition a groove is formed and your response becomes a habitual way of responding to similar situations.
A HOT reactive Amygdala puts you on hyper alert and floods your body with a build-up of stress hormones, causing you to be hypersensitive and over reactive. You feel perpetually under attack.
Your mental states continually shift from moment to moment. You develop strategies and emotional habits for dealing with life events. Warning lights flash on and off in your neural networks connecting the dots internally to guide you automatically to a preset response.
You are like self fulfilling prophecy, being drawn into life events that will attract familiar scenarios, leading you to self defeating, sabotaging behavior and further distress.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Your Amygdala drives your prefrontal Cortex. Your seat of Higher States of Consciousness.
Scientific research shows that a person choosing to stay focused in the present moment, and non reacting when under stress from a life event, stimulates the left prefrontal cortex to secrete neuro chemicals that bring calm. Through developing your powers of observation, meeting and acceptance your neuro circuits for stimulating calm get strengthened.
Practicing self control imbues your life with calm and enhances your ability to become more focused and aware. Which means youll pick up on more of the inner guidance from your Reticular Activation Mechanism - Your High Speed Internet Search Engine for Success thats continually operating on your behalf to bring you what you want.
Training yourself to pay attention and concentrate on challenging circumstances brings flashes of insight. Many notable scientists use this technique for finding solutions to problems.
Through practicing observation, meeting and acceptance of your emotional triggers you can free yourself from the spell cast by a “HOT” Reactive Amgdala and brings balance to your mind.
A relaxed state of mind is tranquil, flexible and receptive.
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Failures Bother You? - September 22, 2008 -
Ive been observing photographers and their business operations for 35 years. Many survive. But many more fail. Of those that fail, the most common flaw was their refusal to pay attention to the business aspect of their photography. In other words they went out of business not because they were not good photographers, but because they were not good business people.
Being a good photographer cannot be learned either you have it or you dont. (And if you have it, you still have to develop it!) But, being a good businessperson can be learned.
But I dont like all that drudgery associated with business, you might say.
Yes, its true, meticulous record keeping and routine tasks are involved. Record keeping. Statistics to keep. Correspondence to fill. Forms to fill out. Ugh! you say and you are correct.
But look at it this way: Are you in love with your photography? If you are, then the inconveniences associated with publishing your photography should pale against your rewards.
THE BEST YEARS
History shows that anyone can succeed if theyre willing to put up with the inconveniences (and the lean years) associated with their endeavor. Actors often talk, write, and sing about their years of struggle. While it was happening, they say, it wasnt pleasant. But if they survived, and went on to fame they often will comment that those years were the best years. Can you draw a parallel to your own efforts? If its any consolation, you might be passing through the best years right now. Enjoy every moment!
The inventor Thomas Edison didnt discover the electric light bulb. He simply put up with the drudgery of testing more than 7,000 different ways to make it work. He was in love with what he was doing. When someone asked him, Isnt it boring going through all those tests? he replied, On the contrary, its exhilarating. Now I know 7,000 ways it cannot be done.
INSPIRATION VS. PERSPIRATION
We tend to call someone a genius if they succeed far beyond their colleagues. But Edisons famous reply was, Genius is 1% inspiration, and 99% perspiration.
The actor George Burns was asked how he got to the top in his profession. He stumbled with a few clichs about being lucky or working hard, and then said, What Im trying to say is if you are really in love with what youre doing the failures along the way wont bother you.
It bears repeating: photographers fail not because theyre not good photographers, but because they didn’t apply themselves to good business practices. Its all woven together the photography plus the business side.
Theres a prevalent misconception in the art world that creative people are not good business people. You could not convince Shakespeare, Picasso, or Andy Warhol of that notion. Yes, the business side of your career can get stormy. But if you are in love with what you are doing, such squalls blow over and you sail on.
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Here Is What Failures Do
How many times did you give up and quit?You were striving for success, but life turned to be very tough that you thought there is no way out and decided that it is better to quit the whole thing. Then you started to believe that you werent meant for success and you would better settle for an ordinary life.We are all confronted with hard times. Howe...
Failure is the Fertilizer for Success
When should you throw in the towel on your professional dreams when time and time again your business ventures fail? When should you stop believing that the right guy is out there after years of searching? When do you give in to an addiction and decide it is stronger than you are after countless times in rehab? Never!Life is full of experiences, m...
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Three Things Nearly All Successful People Share in Common - September 22, 2008 -
If you’re not where you want to be financially or in some other aspect of your life, what can you do to fix it? Unfortunately, the majority of people simply complain, or silently wish their situation was different. On the other hand, successful people take action and the action they take is generally based on a path of proven success.
Let’s take money for example. Most people want more of it. Some desperately need more of it. But what do they do about it? Most do nothing. They stay in their same jobs. They don’t learn anything new. They waste their time watching TV or doing other activities that don’t help them reach their goals.
What’s the number one thing you can do to remedy your problems? You can take action. Yes, it’s really that simple. However, doing it and saying it are two very different things. It takes a good deal of energy and effort to make a change. It also involves risks that some people aren’t willing to take, even if it means accomplishing something that they dream about. It takes determination too because success is rarely achieved on the first attempt at anything. Taking action is the only way to achieve anything.
Once you decide it’s time to take action, how do you know what to do? The best way is to find someone to follow who has achieved what you’re tying to achieve. In other words, seek out advice or mentorship from someone who has reached a demonstrated level of success in the area you are trying to improve upon. This is a very important point that is often overlooked or forgotten. It’s too easy to do your own thing and take a hit or miss approach. This causes you to reinventing the wheel and will take you much, much longer to make a difference in your life. Want to make money? Then seek out advice and guidance from someone who has actually made a lot of money. Want to be a better singer or golfer? Then get advice and training from someone who has excelled in those areas. Follow their path and you’ll reach your goals much sooner and with fewer bruises.
The third thing that most successful people have in common is that they don’t give up. They learn from their failures and try again and again and again, until they succeed.
Successful people don’t let a fear of failure paralyze them into not taking action. They also seek out good advice, mentorship, or guidance, and they Take Action and do something.
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There were no more worlds to conquer- wept Alexander the Great after his army conquered much of the earth. He had a successful mind and became a successful person. You can have similar success, but first you must want it inside before it can become a reality.Are you unmotivated, exhausted, and too spent to achieve any more? This is a good problem....
Achieving Success, Yes It’s For You! - September 21, 2008 -
There is a thought process that goes into achieving any goal:
- First, you MUST BELIEVE that YOU personally can do it.
If YOU Don’t believe that you can do it… NO ONE WILL! Just think about some of those that came before you:
-Micheal Jordan- He was cut from his High School basketball team.
-Bill Gates- Dropped out of Harvard.
-Albert Einstein- Was considered to be a slow learner
I’m sure these people had at least one person in their lives that DID NOT believe in them. They had at least someone that absolutely did not believe that they could achieve their goals. Yet, they succeeded ANYWAY!
Why? Because THEY BELIEVED! They knew without a doubt that they would
achieve their goals.
And -Second, you must Visualize it coming to fruition. If you cannot “see” yourself accomplishing your specific goal… I guarantee, that goal WILL NOT be
accomplished!
You HAVE TO Visualize. Close your eyes and imagine what it will feel like when you get to the end. Smell the smells in the air. Taste the tastes. Hear the sounds around you. Look into the eyes of the people surrounding you. Be a kid again and “Make Believe”.
When we were children, we could imagine anything. Somewhere along the way we “learned” to NOT imagine. Although I listed it second, I believe that this is the FIRST step and the MOST IMPORTANT! Getting to the place where you can actually “See it” can be the hardest part of the process. But, the good news is… once you do that everything else seems to fall into place.
It does NOT matter where you are in your life… YOU CAN DO IT!
It does not matter what profession you are in… YOU CAN DO IT!
It doesn’t matter how much money you make or any obstacles stand in your way…
YOU CAN DO IT!
And speaking of Obstacles… that is ALL THEY ARE! Obstacles are all around each and every one of us. It’s just that some of us tend to allow obstacles to stand in our way and hold us back from achieving our goals and some people DON’T. The people that excel in life, I mean REALLY EXCELL… Believe that there are no obstacles that can hold them back. When an obstacle presents itself… the “ACHIEVERS” come up with a plan to navigate around, over, under, or through the obstacle and advance themselves toward accomplishing their particular goal! That comes with the mind-set of not letting ANYTHING stand in your way.
You must have blinders on, just like Race Horses. If a race horse didn’t have those “blinders” on, they would most likely be distracted from running as fast as they could or from running AT ALL!
There is so much information out there pertaining to “Self Help”. There are plenty of books and professional speakers based solely on this topic. Educate yourself as much as possible on “how-to” succeed… and guess what… YOU WILL.
The fact is there is no “Secret”. It all comes down to those two points:
-BELIEVE and
-VISUALIZE
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